Train To Reign 

Coaching with Kristen Dalton Wolfe, a Miss USA, TV Host, Author and Motivational Speaker.


In 2009, my childhood dream came true when I won Miss USA.
I wasn’t the most beautiful girl nor was I even a front runner. But I didn’t just train for the competition; I trained to reign. Through that training, a sparkle emerged. Some people call it the “it factor.” I call it The Sparkle Effect. And you can have it too…

Two years after I won Miss USA, my life changed in a radical way. I moved to Los Angeles after my reign. I suddenly felt discouraged and somewhat depressed. This was a familiar cycle. A friend at church told me, “Kristen, don’t you know you are a daughter of the King?” This became a life-defining moment.

Like a lightning bolt, the truth suddenly hit me that I was royalty. No more striving. I had a crown no matter what. This meant that I wore a crown before I won Miss USA. And I wear it after my pageant reign.

As the oldest sibling, I developed a formula that said “my performance + the approval of others = my worth.” The new paradigm shift stated,

As a daughter of the King, I operate from identity instead of for identity.”

A new sense of power and freedom surged through me.

I wanted to know more about my newfound royal identity. I wanted to know everything about what this meant for me, my life, who I believed God to be and what I’d been missing.

It’s been a glorious and angering journey. I wondered how things would have been different in my teens and early twenties had I known the truth of who I was. I’ve studied and pressed into my insecurity, over-sensitivity, inferiority, self-criticism, depression, timidity, and people pleasing struggles. With God’s promises and power, my life became recharged. I experienced radical transformation.

I want you to know what it means to have a royal identity. You don’t have to walk around feeling stuck, unfulfilled and masking confusion and hurt.

I’ve been helping young women experience breakthrough and transform into the women God created them to be for years.  Now, I want to help you become the queen you’re meant to be as well.

If you are a millennial woman preparing for a pageant, an interview, going through a relationship struggle or just want breakthrough in your life, I’m here to help you win… from the inside out.

Let’s Train To Reign

Are you ready to feel free and fulfilled in who you are, regardless of circumstances? I’m here to help a pageant competitor or “has been” titleholder win from the inside out by finding her true identity. No more masking or striving. When it comes to achieving your goals, there is one thing that will set you apart. It’s the invisible quality I call The Sparkle Effect. You get it through training for reigning, not just for the competition. Whether you believe it or not, you were made to shine. But your light might be hiding under layers of false beliefs about yourself, half truths, spiritual damage and hurtful experiences. My goal is to help you fully walk in your royal identity by unveiling the layers to release your God-given radiance.

What is Training for Reigning all about?

  • We’ll talk through areas like insecurity, jealousy, people pleasing, dating, friendship conflicts, boundaries, self-worth and more.
  • I’ll help you become the queen before you walk on stage.
  • Cut out “faking it”…you’ll learn how to operate from victory rather than for victory.
  • Walk into rooms secure and confident so that you have the ability to make others feel at ease.
  • Understand you deserve to set standards and how to say NO.
  • Learn how godliness always wins in the end and how to live it out.
  • Cultivate a meaningful, personal relationship with God.
  • Hear God’s voice for yourself.

Private Coaching

I offer online one-on-one private coaching sessions using Skype. Our time together will be completely tailored to your goal. You can just get one session or choose a discounted package. I recommend a package so we can fully maximize and activate your transformation.

One hour skype session: $200. 

Three session package: $600 $500.

Seven session package: $1400 $1300

In honor of this exciting launch, I’m offering a special deal for my next three clients to sign up. Click in to see what they are! I hope you are one of them!